Setting Down Roots

The pros and cons of moving back to your childhood hometown

Moving back to your childhood hometown might just be a stroke of genius, a disaster in the making, or both. There are pros and cons to this decision and it’s up to you to weigh if you’re making the right decision or not. 

Let’s start with the cons, shall we? 

Some things might not have changed

This honestly could be both a pro and a con. A pro in the sense that familiarity helps in settling down. However, it becomes a con when some things or some people might be set in their old ways that it gets in the way of living peacefully. 

You might just get the rumor mill started

Let’s be honest, we thrive on gossip. And someone who grew up in a town or city moving back after years? That’s something worth talking about. People will ask questions and produce answers of their own. So, be ready for hushed whispers and unrealistic and still insulting assumptions. 

Everyone will have a say in your business

Going back to us thriving in gossip, sadly we also thrive in making other people’s business our business. So, a great deal of patience, well-crafted excuses to get out of prying inquiries from “well-meaning” titas, and probably grade-a locks and surveillance will do the trick. 

You might just fall back into old habits and comfort zones 

Going back to where you grew up might not just unearth old memories but habits too. They might not be the healthiest or best of habits so be wary of this. 

Now, let’s dwell on the pros.

You’ll rediscover a lot of things

A lot of things might not have changed in your hometown but you certainly have. You’re older now and (hopefully) more mature. You never know, you might just stumble on a new perspective within the realm of familiarity. 

You’ll get to reconnect with old friends

You’re back in your old stomping ground so you’re bound to bump into old friends. The nostalgia and act of reminiscing might just help you. You know what they say, making peace with your past and being thankful for it might just help your present and future. 

You’ll gain a support system

Your family’s nearer to you now. That might be a downside when it comes to your peace and quiet but it is definitely a benefit when you’re looking for someone to be on your team if needed. They love you and will do anything to help and protect you. 

You might get better opportunities

It could be a better job, better financial stability, or even a better home. You might just stumble on outfits like Doña Nena Residences which provides aspiring homeowners with affordable housing that checks all the boxes when it comes to an ideal Filipino home. With gated communities, 24/7 security and surveillance, and modern yet functional architecture, you’re sure to find a home that will suit all your needs and luxuries.